On Thursday, edgy comedian-filmmaker Louis C.K. was accused of sexual misconduct. On Friday, he released a statement, admitting to the stories told by five women who say C.K. masturbated in front of them or tried to do so (see below).
In a New York Times report, the five women came forward to describe their experiences, adding their voices to the chorus of recent allegations against Hollywood representatives and politicians, including action star Steven Seagal and Senate nominee Roy Moore.
Female comedians Dana Min Goodman, Julia Wolov, Abby Schachner, Rebecca Corry, and a fifth woman who wished to remain anonymous, accused C.K. of sexual misconduct that revolved around masturbation.
C.K’s comedy routines are often lewd and include jokes related to masturbation, and it has long been rumored in entertainment circles that he masturbated in front of associates, according to the Times.
In a statement released on Friday, C.K. addressed the accusations. He said he always asked before revealing his penis to women, but that he realizes he had “wielded [his] power [over the women] irresponsibly.” He expressed regret for his behavior, and said, “There is nothing about this that I forgive myself for.”
C.K.’s statement, edited for explicit language via The Associated Press, may be read below:
I want to address the stories told to the New York Times by five women named Abby, Rebecca, Dana, Julia who felt able to name themselves and one who did not.
These stories are true. At the time, I said to myself that what I did was okay because I never showed a woman my (penis) without asking first, which is also true. But what I learned later in life, too late, is that when you have power over another person, asking them to look at your (penis) isn’t a question. It’s a predicament for them. The power I had over these women is that they admired me. And I wielded that power irresponsibly.
I have been remorseful of my actions. And I’ve tried to learn from them. And run from them. Now I’m aware of the extent of the impact of my actions. I learned yesterday the extent to which I left these women who admired me feeling badly about themselves and cautious around other men who would never have put them in that position.
I also took advantage of the fact that I was widely admired in my and their community, which disabled them from sharing their story and brought hardship to them when they tried because people who look up to me didn’t want to hear it. I didn’t think that I was doing any of that because my position allowed me not to think about it.
There is nothing about this that I forgive myself for. And I have to reconcile it with who I am. Which is nothing compared to the task I left them with.
I wish I had reacted to their admiration of me by being a good example to them as a man and given them some guidance as a comedian, including because I admired their work.
The hardest regret to live with is what you’ve done to hurt someone else. And I can hardly wrap my head around the scope of hurt I brought on them. I’d be remiss to exclude the hurt that I’ve brought on people who I work with and have worked with who’s (sic) professional and personal lives have been impacted by all of this, including projects currently in production: the cast and crew of Better Things, Baskets, The Cops, One Mississippi, and I Love You Daddy (sic). I deeply regret that this has brought negative attention to my manager Dave Becky who only tried to mediate a situation that I caused. I’ve brought anguish and hardship to the people at FX who have given me so much The Orchard who took a chance on my movie and every other entity that has bet on me through the years.
I’ve brought pain to my family, my friends, my children and their mother.
I have spent my long and lucky career talking and saying anything I want. I will now step back and take a long time to listen.
Thank you for reading.
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